My Reflection was never created to be a luxury brand or something only a few people could afford.

It was created to be real, grounded, and accessible — a place where self-care is for everyone, not just those with money.

Every product I make — the candles, the room sprays, the bath salts, the colouring books — is handmade with intention.

These aren’t just items.

They’re tools for calm.

They’re comfort in small moments.

They’re here for anyone who needs support, grounding, or a breath of space in a heavy world.

This brand is for:

any age

any background

any story

support workers

carers

people living with anxiety

people doing their best

people who feel overwhelmed

people who simply need a moment of self-care

I’m not here to be high-end or exclusive.

I’m not here for endorsements or status.

I’m here to create something meaningful — something that helps people feel seen, supported, and understood.

I work two jobs.

I create this range on the side because I love it, and because self-care shouldn’t be out of reach during a cost-of-living crisis.

If what I make can help even one person feel calmer, safer, or lighter… then every hour of creating is worth it.

Thank you for supporting a brand built on purpose, honesty, and heart.

This isn’t just a business — it’s connection.

And I’m grateful you’re here.

— Brendan 🤍

The Colouring Book

All the images you see were designed by yours truly — each one inspired by whatever mood or mental circus I happened to be in at the time. Some were "ugh, I can’t deal today" moments, others were "let’s laugh about it before I cry" moods.

Either way, they’re all a piece of my brain on paper.

The A4 colouring book is spiral-bound — because nobody’s got time to wrestle with stiff pages. You can flip them easily or tear one out to share, gift, or frame your masterpiece (because yes, you’re an artist now).

The book is printed on demand — meaning as soon as you hit order.

I get the alert, grab my coffee, print, punch, spiral, pack, and send it your way.

Think of it as a one-person anxiety-powered printing press.

I aim for a super-quick turnaround so your book’s out the door faster than your next intrusive thought.

What sets this book apart from the rest?

This book is not mass-produced. It's not designed in some shiny office.

Me & My Reflection was created by someone who cares about the product — someone who works in support, understands the chaos of mental health, and wanted to turn that experience into something real, relatable, helpful & beautiful.

Every choice in this book has purpose:

✅ Thicker, bolder lines 

easy to see, easier to colour, and more inclusive for people with vision impairments or focus challenges.

✅ Spiral bound pages

so it lays flat on the table, turns easily, and stays neat while you find your calm.

✅ Single-sided designs

Tear one out, colour it, gift it, frame it, or stick it on the fridge — your creativity deserves to be seen.

This isn’t just another colouring book. It’s a reflection a pausing moment to take time out and reset yourself to keep going.

Built with empathy & reflection — because we all want to avoid burn out.

Room Sprays

All room sprays are handmade by me — mixed, bottled, shaken (not stirred), and filled with scents chosen to calm the chaos and make your space feel a little more… safe.
Each blend is inspired by whatever emotional rollercoaster I happen to be riding that day.

Some were created on “I need a holiday from my own brain” mornings,
others were born during “let’s pretend everything is fine” afternoons.
Either way — each spray is made to help you breathe a little deeper and claim back a tiny pocket of peace.

These sprays are designed for those moments when:
✨ your thoughts won’t shut up
✨ the vibes in the room feel heavier than your washing basket
✨ you need a reset button
✨ you want your home to smell like something OTHER than anxiety

Just a few spritzes and your space instantly shifts — the air feels fresher, lighter, calmer.
Like opening a window in your mind.

Every bottle is made fresh to order.
As soon as you checkout, I grab my mixing bowl, shake up your chosen scent, bottle it, label it, and pack it — all by hand.
Think of it as a one-person aromatherapy factory powered by coffee and mild existential dread.

You can spray them in the bedroom, bathroom, car, office, or anywhere you need a quick mood reset.
They’re strong enough to impress, gentle enough for everyday use, and calming enough to become part of your self-care routine.

So go on — pick your scent, give the bottle a shake, and treat your space (and your nervous system) to a moment of “ahhhh… that’s better.”

Soy Wax Candle Collection

Every candle you see here is hand-poured by me — one batch at a time, in my kitchen, with the precision of a mad scientist and the patience of someone who definitely talks to their wax like it’s a houseplant.

Each scent has its own personality.
Some were created on days when I thought, “I need my house to smell less like reality and more like a holiday.”
Others came from “I need calm or I will combust” energy.

The result?
Candles that do more than smell good —
they help you slow down, breathe, and chill out before anxiety sends another calendar invite to your brain.

Made with natural soy wax, premium fragrance oils, and a whole lot of love (and maybe a tiny sprinkle of chaos), these candles melt evenly, burn beautifully, and fill your space with the kind of fragrance that makes guests go,
“OMG what candle is that?”

I make every candle fresh to order — pour, cure, trim, label, and pack — all by hand.
Think of it as a tiny candle factory run by one overly caffeinated human who just wants your home to smell like hope.

Light one when you’re:
✨ trying to unwind
✨ having a self-care moment
✨ tidying your room so your life feels 4% less chaotic
✨ journaling, colouring, or deep-breathing your way back to sanity

Whatever the moment, these candles are here to bring warmth, comfort, and a much-needed sense of “I’ve got this.”

My Reflection Self Care Gift Sets

Meet the ultimate “I deserve something nice” self-care gift packs — handmade, thoughtfully put together, and created for anyone who needs a break, a breath, or a gentle reminder that they matter.

Each gift pack is packed by me, with every item chosen to help calm the mind, soften the day, and bring a little peace into everyday chaos. Whether you’re buying for someone else or quietly treating yourself (no judgement here), these packs are designed to feel like a warm hug in a box.

Inside each pack you’ll find a combination of:
🕯️ soy wax candles to bring warmth and comfort
🌿 room sprays to instantly shift the energy
🛁 bath salts for slowing down and resetting
🖍️ colouring books to quiet racing thoughts
📘 notepads and journals to organise the chaos
💛 a thank-you note that feels genuinely kind

Think of it as a mental reset button — wrapped up, ready to go, and made with care.

Made for that deep exhale moment and proper self-care time.

Made With Care

Each pack is made to order.
The moment you purchase, I grab your items, assemble everything with care, and pack it neatly.

These gift packs are perfect for:
✨ someone going through a tough time
✨ someone who deserves a moment of calm
✨ someone who needs a smile
✨ someone who overthinks (hi, same)
✨ or YOU — because self-care isn’t selfish

No matter which pack you choose, the message is the same

“You’re not alone. You’re doing your best. And you deserve a moment of peace.”

Bath Salts

These bath salts are an invitation to slow down and breathe.

Hand-blended in small batches, they’re designed to bring a sense of calm and comfort into your home — whether you’re looking to quiet a busy mind, ease tired muscles, or simply unwind after a long day.

Each blend combines mineral-rich salts, softening bicarbonate, and carefully chosen essential oils to create a soothing, gentle soak. The addition of natural botanicals adds a grounding touch, helping you feel relaxed, settled, and present in the moment.

Whether used in a bath or a foot soak, these salts are about simple, at-home relaxation — no expectations, no rush, just time for yourself.

Available blends:

🌿 Cedarwood & Rosemary – calming, grounding and deeply comforting

or

🍋 Citrus & Mint – fresh, uplifting and gently refreshing

How to use:

Add to a warm bath or foot soak and allow the salts to dissolve.

Take a few slow breaths and let the day fade away.